Some people feel that they have no confidence in sex, but you shouldn’t just give up your sex life. You may now feel that your sexuality is super embarrassing and you have lost the ability to fully express yourself in terms of sex. In this article, you can learn how to be sexually confident.
Sexual self-confidence is the foundation of a solid relationship between the sexes, and lack of sexual self-confidence can easily lead to insecurities in the relationship between the sexes. There are many insecure factors for sex. The latest article published by “Life Canada” published “4 ways to boost sexual self-confidence” summarized by Dr. Joey Davidson, a psychotherapist and sex therapist in New York.
Open sex chatbox
I have some “fantastic ideas” about sex, but I’m not sure how my partner might react. This often makes people feel very unconfident. Dr. Davidson suggested that you might as well use books or movies to open the “sex chatbox” at this time. For example, when you see an intimate scene in a movie, you might as well say: “Wow, it’s so sexy! If we do the same, I won’t mind.” Taking the “example” in the movie or book as a starting point, make suggestions. According to your partner’s reaction, choose the opportunity.
Learn more about sex
Sexual exploration should not be limited to the bedroom. Learning more sexual knowledge through video or text materials will help expand your horizons, understand more people’s different measures in sex, and provide more choices for your own sex life. , And then gradually add to your own life little by little. After constant experimentation, find out the best way of sex for two people.
Sharing fantasies with a partner
One of the best ways to truly understand whether two people are in harmony and match in terms of sex is to truly express themselves in terms of sex and be frank with each other. If you forcibly refrain from telling your thoughts, pretending to like the other person’s way of sex, or not telling your own sexual thoughts, then what is presented to the other party is actually a false side, which will inevitably make it difficult for the other party to find the real you. In fact, the mutual expression of husband and wife’s sexuality is as important as the exchange of other values. Not sharing true sexual thoughts with your partner will eventually lead to asexual marriages. The reason is that the more closed in expressing sexual thoughts, the more likely it is to lead to the loss of sexual self-confidence.
Learn to accept your own body
Many people (especially women) lack confidence in their bodies. Either worry about your fatness or thinness, or worry that your skin, body, or a certain part of your body is not sexy enough and lacks sexual charm. Dr. Davidson said that one fact that women should understand most is that self-confidence is the best “accessory” for women. Be true to yourself, learn to accept your own body, and make yourself feel comfortable and confident. On this basis, lighting candles, spraying some perfume, and creating romance will add more sexual self-confidence.
One of the best ways to build sexual confidence in the bedroom is to explore different ways to please yourself. If your partner agrees, you can choose and explore sex toys together.