Nearly 80% of women (over the age of 18) in the United States reportedly have their own vibrator. This proves that sex Toys are one of the best choices that people choose to add sexual pleasure, and some people use them for pleasurable solo stimulation, as well as as a condiment for their partner’s sex life.
Although surveys show that most people have sex toys at home, there are still a small number of people who do not buy them. For this small group, it’s shyness or fear of offending their partner and not knowing how to buy the right toy. We can fully understand the reasons cited above. And since everyone’s personality is so different, extroverts may be more comfortable with using sex toys than introverts. Keep in mind that having fun sex will greatly improve your partner’s mood and make you happier quickly. We have several important tips in this article!
Communicate With Your Partner
Many couples may never try this and it may feel awkward to talk about it at first, but breaking the ice and letting your partner know how you feel can help lighten the mood and broaden the conversation. Expressing your ideas can help you better understand what you want and make it easy for them to express their needs as well. It’s key to discuss the issue in a way that includes them, by highlighting how you imagine shared intimacy. When your conversation flows smoothly, focus on what you feel is novel and possible, and you will be able to make a satisfying connection between your two wishes.
Learn About Sex Toys
Once you have clear communication with your partner, it’s time to choose toys based on your preferences. First, you need to take into account the parts and types of stimulation you most want.
A great starter toy is the clitoral stimulation toy, which is a great first step if you just want to give it a go. It can also be used on the nipple and many other sensitive areas. If you want something that can be used in multiple situations, try G spot toys, which are perfect for easing tension anywhere. The idea of sex toys is not limited to vibrators, but there are many other accessories with unique benefits to try. A good option is to try a simple set of handcuffs or eye masks. Giving up control of your partner is not only tempting, but it’s also very erotic.
Security Issues
Before taking your toy to bed or anywhere else, learn about the product and how it works. Check if it needs a battery or a charge, and test its functionality in a non-sexual environment to understand its potential. Safety is key!
If the tip does not state that it is safe for your anus, do not attempt to stimulate your anus. This can lead to bad consequences and high bills that follow. But if it is, please use compatible lubricants to ensure the safety of the backdoor game. As always, communication is one of your most rewarding sexual activities.
Start To Enjoy Playing
Now that you’re ready, it’s time to sit down and play. Check-in with you and your partner throughout the process to see what feels good, or what to try. Don’t hesitate to continue talking and mentioning how you feel in your intimate relationship. Connecting you, the toy, and your partner helps tie the experience together and create exciting eroticism.